如果是被诱骗的，那我太同情了。
人总是对自己没经历过的苦难缺乏想像。
你以为的女生没有防范意识，是一个猥琐男发短信说“美女要不要今晚10点来我家玩”结果女生还欣然赴约，但其实从曝光的信息看，更类似于：
一个看似专业的工作人员联系你，说有一个MV出镜的机会，问你要不要晚上9点来面试。你质疑为什么是晚上9点，对方可能会说我们老板这样的当红偶像行程很紧，白天都在录节目，明早6点就要飞上海拍戏了，MV投资方催的紧需要尽早定下人选。你本来就是北电的新生，周围运气好的同学已经都拍广告了，你生怕自己被落下，于是答应了去面试。
去了你就被收了手机，你觉得合情合理，本来对方就是顶流大明星，谈的都是几个亿的大项目，害怕被泄露商业机密很正常。
你以为的女生不想被睡就不该喝酒，是一个猥琐男说“嘿嘿嘿小美妞陪大爷我喝一杯”然后掐着嗓子灌酒所以女生应该刚烈地拒绝，但其实是类似于：
大家说拿下这个项目真不容易，现在MV主演也终于确定了，我们开几瓶酒庆祝一下吧。每个人都显得那么开心，你不好意思破坏气氛就喝了几杯。大家轮番互相敬酒，你不想再喝时，一个人说这是我们老板的某个牛逼朋友从某某地方带来的多少钱一瓶的好酒，不喝浪费了。另一个人对着黑脸的吴说小姑娘不懂事，老板您别生气。你又喝了几杯，感觉有点晕的时候想提前走，工作人员拦下你说庆祝完还有几个合同细节要跟你确认一下，今天的工作还没结束。你执意要走时，一个工作人员生气地说：我们这么多人陪你耗了这么久都没说累了要回家，你工作还没谈就走，我们又得重新招演员，耽误了拍摄进程你来付违约金吗？另一个工作人员发怒道：现在北电的小姑娘都这么不懂事吗？下次跟她们系主任说一下，新剧不再找北电的学生了，没有敬业精神。
你怕连累母校，勉强又待了一会，他们有说有笑聊圈内的事聊得很开心，你几次想问什么时候谈工作但也插不上话。这酒后劲很大，你没感觉喝多时已经醉了。
以上情节纯属虚构，是为了举例说明什么叫“被自愿”。
我们都是外貌平平生活规律的打工族，除了8小时的劳动力没什么被人觊觎的价值，所以觉得明星联系自己合作就很离谱。但这些女孩本来就是大美女，半只脚刚踏进娱乐圈，和明星的距离比普通人近得多。我们觉得值得防备的情况在娱乐圈就是常态，你要是拒绝晚上见人拒绝喝酒可能就无法获得任何工作机会。
很多高赞说这些女孩也不是好东西。我纳闷十七八岁的女孩能怎么坏。你十七八岁还是学生的时候敢联系个团队碰瓷你们行业最大的大佬坑他一笔？
还有很多人说这是你情我愿的约P。这些人就严重缺乏社会经验。现实中100%你情我愿的约P很少，大多存在一定程度以爱为名的哄骗。我一个常年玩各种交友软件的男性朋友说，你在交友软件上开门见山不加掩饰地说出自己只上床不谈恋爱，能约出来的只有收费的性工作者。
吴不可能不明白骗P比约P睡到的女生质量高太多太多，从他的采访和多人曝光的信息，他不想要有性经验的，不想用钱砸出来的性（像wsc那样），他无耻地践踏别人的信任，放肆地掠夺别人的单纯美好的青春时自己却想享受被全身心地爱与崇拜的感觉，那最方便的手段就是以爱的名义了。所以他不停地给女生说我们在谈恋爱我们以后会结婚。再假的谎言重复1000遍也听着像真话了。
女生从小被灌输的信息也和男生不一样。我小时候爸妈给我买了成套成套的王子公主的童话书，套路全是前半篇讲公主如何美貌如何善良如何被大家喜爱，后半篇讲如何经历苦难被王子拯救从此过上幸福生活。得出的结论就是漂亮+善良=被男人爱=幸福。男生小时候就从来不看这种狗屁倒灶原地等幸福的故事，他们看金庸古龙，看三国水浒，自己是故事的主角，经历精彩，征服女人。
所以男人永远无法理解女人被欺骗感情怎么会得抑郁症。因为他们心里压根没有如理想般崇高、纯洁的、光芒万丈的爱情，也不会理解发现这个世界根本不存在爱后那种光熄灭的痛苦。被吴以恋爱为名义找的“乖女孩”，很可能在他软磨硬泡装可怜之下才在诱奸后保持性关系。女生从小被教育要善良要顺从要替他人考虑，接受的性教育不过是“爱到深处有了性然后有了小孩”，没人告诉她们不爱也会有性也会有小孩。她们以为男生求自己上床是因为太爱自己了，人渣也乐于她们这么以为。她们不忍心让“男朋友”难受于是答应了他的请求，结果这成了她们“不自爱”的污点。但凡她们多爱自己一点，就发现大多数男人不如按摩棒好用，没必要为了呵护男人的自尊心曲意逢迎。
这就是老男人专找小姑娘，利用认知不对等掠夺她们性价值的可恶之处。吴这样的惯犯，这样庞大的团队怎么可能不会防着他翻车？他轻车熟路地找合法年龄中最单纯无知的，一套熟练的组合操作彻底断绝自己被告发的可能性。被伤害过的小姑娘内心一片废墟。在她们认知中，只有自己做错了什么，或是自己是个没价值的人，才会被这么粗暴地抛弃。她们一直在自己身上找原因，却不了解人渣的思维模式。内心痛苦地煎熬几个月，逐渐了解到其他同样被玩弄的女孩的信息，才明白这件事从根儿上就和她想的不一样。她以为性是爱到深处的表达，结果在人渣眼里，性是玩弄，是欺负，是发泄，是征服，而她就是个随意丢弃的玩物。她怎能不痛苦不愤怒？
如果这般我都不同情这些女孩，还要再踩上两脚。那下一个受害者更不敢站出来，而人渣会越来越肆无忌惮。
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看到好几个大聪明表示如果有美女大明星和自己合作，自己决不会相信有这样的好事。是的因为你没这潜质这不是针对你的骗局。如果我实验室最牛的大师兄找都美竹，让她帮忙做电镜，paper给她挂个三作，她也不会被骗。但我就会受宠若惊然后被骗，虽然我的水平可能只够给大师兄磨个样品，但是我在三作的诱惑下被白嫖半年的劳动力最后还没挂名，所以我比都美竹更虚荣更愚蠢吗？
还有几个人间清醒说如果自己和美女大明星一夜情肯定很开心绝不会反悔更不会事后要800万，以此证明这些女生贪婪。如果你愿意被一个人当成蠢货一样欺骗，不顾你健康地肆意玩弄几天肉体，之后像破抹布一样丢弃再也不联系，还能毫无怨恨心生感激津津乐道地跟身边人炫耀，那只能说明一件事：你的性价值比对方低得多得多得多。明星也想享受，肯定不会找性价值这么低的，所以美女大明星约我这种意淫没有参考意义。
别说美女大明星了，和普通女生能不负责任地约个炮你都偷着乐，甚至有的男生以恋爱为前提都没有性生活。那只能说明你比大多数女生性价值都低。价值低很骄傲吗需要专门开个帖子讲自己睡一下就知足？
吴欺骗的女生，比他年轻得多，比他漂亮身材好，比他性经历少得多，所以性价值明显比他高。不然他何必大费周章地又是骗她们介绍工作又是骗她们恋爱结婚软磨硬泡半天。
说坐地排卵的粉丝，要么是没什么经历的未成年为了显得社会在口嗨，要么自认为性价值比吴低。她们的言论，不能证明被吴哄骗女生对这种性掠夺求之不得。这是很明显的道理。
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If he was tricked, I'm sorry.
People always lack imagination of the suffering they have not experienced.
You think the girl has no sense of prevention, and is a creepy man sent a text message saying, "Do you want to come to my house at 10 tonight" The girl is happy to go, but in fact, from the exposure information, it is more like:
A seemingly professional staffer contacts you about an opportunity to appear in a music video and asks if you'd like to come in for an interview at 9pm. You question why it is 9 PM, the other party may say that our boss is such a popular idol schedule is very tight, during the day to record the program, will fly to Shanghai at 6 o 'clock tomorrow morning to shoot, MV investors pressing the need to determine the candidate as soon as possible. You are a new student in Nortel, and all the lucky students around you have already taken commercials. You are afraid of being left behind, so you agree to go to the interview.
Went to you to be received mobile phone, you feel reasonable, originally the other party is top flow big star, what talk about is several billion of big project, be afraid to divulge business secret very normal.
You think that the girls do not want to be sleep should not drink, is a creepy male said "hey hey hey little beautiful girl to accompany big ye I drink a cup" and then choked drink so the girls should be fiercely refused, but in fact is similar to:
Everyone said it was not easy to win this project, and now the MV star is finally determined, let's open a few bottles of wine to celebrate. Everyone seemed so happy, you had a few drinks because you didn't want to ruin it. When you don't want to drink any more, one of them says, "This is a nice bottle of wine that one of our boss's awesome friends brought in from XXX. It's a waste of money." Another person to the black face of the wu said the little girl is not sensible, boss you don't angry. You had a few more drinks, and when you felt a little dizzy, you wanted to leave early. The staff stopped you and said that you had a few contract details to confirm with you after the celebration, and that the day's work was not finished yet. You insist to go, a staff member said angrily: we so many people to accompany you to spend so long did not say tired to go home, you haven't talk about work to go, we have to recruit actors again, delayed the shooting process you to pay liquidated damages Another staff member is angry way: now the little girl of the north electric power all so not sensible Tell their dean next time, no more nortel students in the new play, no work ethic.
You fear to bring trouble to the Alma mater, reluctantly stayed for a while, they talked and laughed and chatted about the things in the circle very happy, you several times want to ask when to talk about work, but also can't get in the conversation. This drink has a strong hangover and you'll be drunk before you feel it.
The above story is purely fictional to illustrate what it means to be "voluntarily".
We are all ordinary looking workers living a regular life, in addition to 8 hours of labor there is no coveted value, so feel that the star contact their cooperation is very ridiculous. But these girls are great beauty, just stepped into the entertainment circle, and the star distance is much closer than ordinary people. What we consider to be a precaution is the norm in the entertainment industry, where if you refuse to see people at night and refuse to drink, you may not get any job offers.
A lot of praise says these girls aren't good either. I wonder how bad 17 - and 18-year-old girls can be. When you were 17, 18 years old and still a student, you contacted a team to rip off the biggest guy in your industry
Many others said it was a consensual agreement. These people are severely lacking in social experience. In reality, there are few 100% consensual agreements, most of which involve some degree of cheating in the name of love. According to a male friend of mine who has been on various dating apps for years, 'On dating apps, you openly state that you only have sex, not relationships, and that the only people you can date are paid sex workers.
Wu could not understand cheating than about P P to girls too high quality sleep, from his interview and exposure information, sexual experience, he doesn't want to don't want to come out to buy sex as (WSC), he brazenly trample on others' trust, audaciously robbing others' pure beautiful youth want to enjoy themselves were fully the feeling of love and adoration, Then the most convenient means is in the name of love. So he keeps telling girls that we're in a relationship and that we're going to get married. A false lie will sound like truth if repeated 1,000 times.
Girls are also raised with different messages than boys. When I was a child, my parents bought me a complete set of prince and princess fairy tales. The first half was about how beautiful and kind the princess was and how she was loved by everyone, and the second half was about how she was saved by the prince through suffering and lived happily ever after. The conclusion is that beauty + kindness=being loved by men=happiness. When the boys were young, they never saw such stories of happiness such as the bullshit, such as "turning the kitchen to the ground". They saw Jin Yong, Gu Long, The Three Kingdoms and Shui Hu, and they were the protagonist of the story, having wonderful experiences and conquering women.
So men can never understand how women get depressed when they're cheated on. Because they do not have the lofty, pure and radiant love in their hearts, nor do they understand the pain of discovering that there is no such thing as love in the world. The "good girl" whom Wu found in the name of love is likely to keep a sexual relationship after being seduced by him. Girls are taught to be kind, submissive, and considerate of others. The sex education they receive is just "love deep enough to have sex and then have children." No one tells them that they can have sex and have children without love. They think guys want sex because they love them too much, and scum like them to think so. They couldn't bear to make their "boyfriend" feel bad so they said yes, and it turned out to be a stain on their "lack of love." If only they loved themselves a little more, they would find that most men are not as good as a massage stick, and there is no need to flatter a man in order to protect his self-esteem.
This is the hateful way older men go after young girls and use cognitive inequality to rob them of their sexual value. With a repeat offender like Wu, how could a team of this size not have prevented him from flipping over He was adept at finding the most innocent of legal ages, a skillful combination that completely eliminated the possibility of his being accused. The little girl who had been hurt was in ruins. In their perception, only they have done something wrong, or they are worthless, can be so violently abandoned. They keep looking for reasons in themselves, but they don't understand how a scum thinks. The heart pain suffering for a few months, gradually understand the information of other girls who were also being played, to understand that this matter from the ribs and she thought is not the same. She thought sex was an expression of deep love, but in the eyes of scumbags, sex was toying with, bullying, venting, conquering, and she was a throwback plaything. How could she not be bitter and angry
If I don't feel sorry for these girls like that, I'll step on them again. Then the next victim will be afraid to come forward, and the scum will be more and more reckless.
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See a few big clever say if have beauty big star to cooperate with oneself, oneself never believe to have such good thing. Yeah, because you don't have it in you and it's not a scam against you. If my lab's best master brother asked Du Meizhu to help make an electron microscope, and paper hung three works for her, she would not be cheated. But I will be flattered and then cheated, although my level may only be enough to grind a sample for the master brother, but I was lured by the white prostitute for half a year's labor and finally no name, so I am more vain and stupid than dumei Bamboo
Still have a few human sober say if oneself and beautiful female big star one night stand affirmation very happy will not repent more won't want 8 million after the event, prove these girls greed. If you're willing to be tricked by someone like an idiot, fling your body around like a rag for a few days, and then throw it away like a rag, never to be in touch again, and show it off with no resentment and no gratitude, that can only mean one thing: you're a lot less sexually valuable than your partner. The star also wants to enjoy, affirmation won't look for sexual value so low, so the beauty big star asks me this kind of meaning to have no reference meaning.
Don't say the beauty big star, and the ordinary girl can irresponsibly about a gun you are secretly happy, even some boys to love as the premise of no sex life. That just means you have less sexual value than most women. Low value very proud need to open a special post about their sleep is satisfied
The girls wu cheated on were much younger, better looking, and had much less sexual experience, so their sexual value was significantly higher than his. Otherwise, why should he go to great trouble to deceive them to introduce work and to deceive them to love and marry a long time.
Fans who say they ovulate are either teenagers with little experience who want to appear to society, or they think their sexual value is lower than Wu's. Their comments do not prove that the girls tricked by Wu were willing to engage in such sexual predation. It makes sense.
